BUILDING BRIDGES
Coming to the US for her college education was never on Vidia’s radar while growing up in China. That changed one day when two US professors visited her high school. She was fascinated to learn that students can change majors after enrolling in college—something that is fairly difficult to do at a Chinese university.
“I wanted to find the best major for me— something that I loved, and that would help me find a job after graduating,” she said.
Vidia set out to learn more and discovered UMHB’s math program. While checking out Belton online, she also learned that numerous barbecue joints surround the university, and she was sold! “Only in America can you get sauce like this. There is nothing better than the sauce at Miller’s!” she said of the iconic barbecue hangout in downtown Belton.
For most international students, coming to America is an eye-opening experience—getting comfortable with the language, learning the culture, adapting to the heat, and getting out of comfort zones.
“The first semester I was here was not that bad because I was in ESOL (English for Speakers of Other Languages), and I hung around other Chinese friends,” she said. “I didn’t really interact with a lot of other people.”
But during her second semester, when she began taking regular college classes, Vidia quickly realized she was in for a challenge.
“It was so difficult because I didn’t practice English a lot my first semester,” she said. “The second semester, I was sitting in the classroom, and I didn’t know how to speak to others. Everybody was talking, and I was just sitting there. I could feel the gap. I was so nervous.”
Vidia also had to learn how to make friends.
“I didn’t know how to make friends because in China we just study, study, study,” she said. “We woke up at 5:30 and studied all day and went to sleep at 11:30. So you don’t have a lot of time to make friends.”
She joined the Baptist Student Ministry and attended its many fellowships and Bible studies, which proved to be the perfect place to practice English. As she became more comfortable, she wanted to make it easier for other international students to interact with American friends, so she started a club called CRU Bridge to help bring international and domestic students together. “It gives students, no matter where they are from, a way to make friends and get out of their comfort zones,” she said.
When Vidia was a sophomore, she decided she wanted to serve as a CRU leader at Welcome Week. She loved teaching the incoming students about all things UMHB, and cherished experiencing the traditional Welcome Week activities right along with her group—especially the Dubbing Ceremony.
“I had tears in my eyes! I was really excited!” Vidia said when she was “dubbed” a “Crusader Forever.” “I’m a member of the UMHB family, and UMHB is my home! I really want other international students to feel like that.”